How can I use this week’s “When in Rome” theme to ease the fear of starting in a new city or job?

Use your journal to turn the unknown into small experiments. 1) Name the worry: Write 3 sentences separating feelings from facts (Twain: truth is easier to carry). 2) Imagine a helpful version of events (Woolf): write one “best-plausible” scenario for today. 3) Do one tiny action that signals participation—a hello to a coworker, trying a local lunch spot (Franklin: well done > well said). 4) Close with connection: note one way you were a small rainbow in someone’s cloud (Angelou), even if it’s a smile or sincere thanks. In Stoic, respond to today’s prompt about blending into new groups, then add a 1-line plan for tomorrow’s micro-step. Repeat daily to build safety through action and reflection.

What’s a simple structure for my daily entry to explore new viewpoints without losing myself?

Try this 4-part template: • Observe: Describe the new norm or belief you noticed today in plain facts (Twain/Huxley: truth first, even if it’s uncomfortable). • Translate: Write how it might make sense within that culture’s values—assume good intent where possible. • Try: Note one small way you’ll respectfully test it (a phrase, a custom, a meeting norm). • Keep: After trying, list what aligns with your values to keep, and what you’ll decline—with a brief why (Weil: “I can” choose). Use the Stoic prompts on openness and influence this week; let your “Keep/Decline” notes guide which habits you integrate versus simply appreciate.

I picked up a great habit while traveling—how do I make it stick and stop procrastinating on it?

Anchor it to meaning and make it tiny. 1) Why it resonated: Write the feeling it gave you and what problem it solved. 2) Minimum version: Define the 2-minute version (Franklin: do > say). 3) When/where: Choose a specific daily cue you already do (after coffee, after commute). 4) Remove friction: List one obstacle and one tweak to reduce it. 5) Same-day proof: Do the 2-minute version today (Dickens: catch procrastination early). In Stoic, use the habit-related prompts to review weekly: What stuck? What drifted? Adjust the cue or the minimum until it feels inevitable rather than heroic.

On When in Rome

This week, we’ll step into new traditions, cultures, and ways of thinking.

Nov 17, 2025 ― Nov 23, 2025

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